Money doesn’t automatically bring happiness, but neither does being poor. So everything else being equal, you’re better off marry a rich man than a poor or average one as you’ll have more options for yourself, send your kids to a better college and live a fuller lifestyle. But rich and successful men are a rare commodity, competition is high and getting yourself a rich husband requires work, time and a good strategy. You need a plan.
And I’m not just talking about millionaires, factory owners and superstars. You can be happy with a guy who started from scratch but built his own fortune through skill and hard work and who knows how to manage his money, not necessarily someone who was born rich. Doctors, engineers, upscale techie guys all make good rich husbands and good providers.
It is vital to be prepared before you actually meet a potential rich spouse. You want to look (and smell) your best, you want to present a good and caring personality, a girl that he’ll be happy to bring home and show to his momma. So here’s my four-step plan on finding and marrying a rich husband.
Step One – Physically Prepare Yourself
Rich men are attracted to same qualities in women as all other men, but they are more picky because they have more options. So you need to step it up and get your body in top shape, exercise daily, eat healthy and always be clean and well groomed. You want to project picture of health and beauty, you want to be one person in the crowd that everyone will notice. Wear something noticeable but not flashy. Depending on the shape you’re in now, you might need to spend up to 6 months to get yourself in “supermodel” shape but the rewards are worth it.
Step Two – Work on Your Social Skills And Personality.
There are plenty of books and courses on conversation skills, psychology, body language. Basically you want them to feel relaxed and comfortable around you. To get into their minds, try and find a pickup guide for guys so you’ll know more about how they think or at least be able to recognize when he attempts a “textbook” move. You want to be prepared for the moment when you actually find a rich man, you want to have the net ready and catch him. You want to have a job, any job, you do not want to look like a slacker or gold digger who will always be a burden to him.
One place where rich bachelors seek potential wives is on specialized dating sites for rich men. Typically the ratio on these sites is 4 women to one man but if you’re prepared you will stand above the competition. Key to succeeding on online dating is to invest work in your profile. Put on lots of pictures of yourself looking cute and classy, ideally also a few pictures of you volunteering at a charity event with appropriate comments. Make sure you also have a webcam and can video-chat live with potential mate (so he can see what you actually look like). These sites typically charge men for access, just enough to drive away the cheap ones so you know you’re talking with a potential wealthy husband. Some also offer a service of “verified millionaire” where the site owners will verify financials of their clients. You can use it to browse the membership base and get a feel of the kind of people you’ll be meeting, or with a little work you can find yourself a rich husband right there!